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How to Prevent Chafing This Spring and Summer

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“I didn’t choose the thick life, the thick life chose me.” -Unknown

Chafing. It doesn’t sound pretty and it’s not. Heck, it’s practically a four letter word. Nobody likes it, but most people have to deal with it at one point or another. And, no, chafing isn’t just a plus size problem. I, too, used to think it was, but people of all shapes and sizes experience painful skin-to-skin rubbing — especially during warmer months and/or during exercise. Unless you have a serious thigh gap, you’ve probably felt that uncomfy rub between your legs.

Thankfully, there are a lot of solutions out there and, lucky for you, I’ve tried them all: Creams, deodorant sticks, biker shorts, thigh bands, panty hose, baby oil, skipping a skirt and wearing pants…you name it. I’ve tried every solution I could find. (The thick thigh struggle is real, y’all.)

Here’s a list of my most favorite, go-to products when I’m sick and tired of wearing pants and ready to show off my legs: (Click on the products to learn more about them.)

Body products: There are oily sticks and powders in this category that could truly change your life. My number one favorite on this list is MedZone. It lasts forever and is easy to apply. They even carry products that treat irritation spots if you have any.

  • ChafeZone

  • HER stick

  • Gold Bond Friction Defense

  • Monistat Powder Gel

  • Monkey Butt powder

 

Shapewear: Shapewear can provide a dual purpose. It both smooths your figure (which is great for when you’re wearing a bodycon outfit) and it can provide relief from chub rub. Some people detest shapewear, but I personally love feeling sucked in. More than anything else, it helps my posture which is key for me because I have lower back issues. #TMI? Anyway, shapewear can be your best friend if you’re into it.

  • Spanx

  • A million other name and non-name brands like these by Vassarette

 

Shortlettes: The cousin to shapewear. They look similar, but they aren’t as tight. They rest against the body (rather than hug it) like a slip…but shorts. Slip shorts!

  • Undersummers

(Thigh Society slip shorts are only sold only on their website. Click the link above for more information.)

  • Bandelettes lace panty shorts

  • Jockey Skimmies

 

Thigh bands: In a category of their own is Bandelettes. This is one of my most favorite and sexiest options for combating chub rub. These are great for a flirty, lacey peek-a-boo under a short dress or skirt and make a great alternative to shortlettes because, well, they’re just sexier. So, no worries about wearing them on a date because you’ll still feel like a million bucks underneath your clothes. Best part of all, they do NOT roll down as long as you measure yourself correctly to get the appropriate size for your thighs. (Hey, that rhymed.) What’s more is, Bandelettes also makes a non-lace, fitness-friendly version, perfect for summer workouts!

  • Bandelettes thigh bands

So, which product(s) do you think you’ll choose to help you keep the chub rub away? Let me know in the comments!

Whether you wear shortlettes, shape wear, thigh bands…or use a good old chafing stick, I hope you have a fabulous Spring and Summer rocking those bodacious legs of yours for all the world to see!

xo

Outfit details: Dress: DressBarn | Shoes: Marc Fisher/DSW | Shortlettes: Undersummers

Photographer: Tresla @CurvyKimchi

I’m in Parfait Lingerie’s 2018 “Perfect Figure” Campaign!

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“Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — Lolly Daskal

Im excited to share that I was asked to be a part of Parfait Lingerie’s 2018 “Perfect Figure” campaign, featuring diverse women of different ages, sizes, shapes, ability levels, etc.
I shot with the brand for two full days last month: one day in a home and another day in a photo studio. (We still have an upcoming video day shoot, but that won’t be until early January.)

I’ve got to admit, I was really nervous before the Parfait shoot. I’m not at my highest weight ever, but I’m certainly not at my lowest. And I’m definitely not at my most fit and trim. But, I reminded myself that I was chosen for the campaign for me – flaws and all. And, I wanted other women to know that they can feel beautiful and sexy in the skin they’re in, just as they are right now!

As part of my collaboration with Parfait, I’ll be shooting and posting photos in their lingerie each month of 2018. Here are some shots I took with my good friend, fantastic boudoir photographer, Ashlee Kulp (@AshKatPhoto) during a recent trip to Washington, D.C.

I’m so excited for the “Perfect Figure” campaign to launch that I just want it to be 2018 already! I really can’t wait for you to see the campaign photos. But, in the meantime, you can snack on these and the ones I’ve been sharing on my Instagram. (Are you following me? @ChiefofStyle)

Tell me…have you ever done a boudoir photoshoot? Would you ever? Share your thoughts in the comments! <3

xo

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Plus size boudoir photos and Plus size lingerie by Parfait and Bandelettes thigh chaffing lingerie bands

Recap: Website Launch Party + Contest!

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A few dozen plus size style bloggers, models, influencers, photographers, stylists, MUA/hair stylists, my long-time friends and family gathered on the ACE Hotel rooftop in Downtown Los Angeles to celebrate the launch of this very website. In case you weren’t able to make the event, below are a few photos and a recap video to give you an idea of what you missed.

Thank you to everyone who came out. It brings a tear to my eye knowing how much love and support I have in my life. <3

A very special thank you to my sponsors:

*CONTEST DETAILS:

To celebrate hitting 10,000 followers on Instagram, I’m having a contest. The prize will be one of the few remaining gift bags from the event. (So, there you’ve got several chances of winning!) To give you an idea of how awesome the bags are, they include vouchers for a pair of Bandalettes and Undersummers (among other fab items from the brands listed above)!

To enter the contest, you must do the following:

  1. Follow me on Instagram (@Chiefofstyle)
  2. Like one of my most recent posts
  3. Tag three friends under the post you liked
  4. Subscribe to my blog (on the home page there’s a signup box on the right once you scroll down about half way)

That’s it! I’ll announce the winners next week. Good luck!

xx

 

 

Outfit details: Dress: Eloquii | Shoes: Badgley Mischka | Necklace: Ryze Project

Videographer + Editor: @JorgeLopezMedia (jlm.videography@gmail.com)